Help, My Instagram Engagement Is Down
DEAR DEVLIN
Help, My Instagram Engagement Is Down
Dear Devlin,
Have you any wise words around reach on Instagram? I feel that I’ve been consistently showing up on there since I started my wedding photography business 8 years ago. Obviously, in that time my following has grown but this year I feel like I’m posting into an abyss. I don’t think my work isn’t as good but I’m now getting a lot less likes and comments. I feel like it’s just not worth the effort right now, do I keep going or put all my effort into TikTok instead ( I get very little engagement on there too!)
Chris From Cheshire



“The people who will put money in your bank: couples planning weddings are using Instagram in a totally different way. They aren’t sitting around waiting for your next post to pop up in their feed. They’re using the platform like a search engine.”
Dear Chris from Cheshire,
Let me start by saying this: you are absolutely not alone in feeling worried about wedding photography Instagram reach right now. I hear this same thing from so many photographers, especially those who have been consistent for years. The truth is, it’s not just you. The platform has changed and continues to evolve. But that might not be as bad as it feels.
First, let’s be honest. Who do most of the likes and comments come from? Is it other people in the wedding industry? Fellow photographers, planners, and makeup artists? I hate to break it to you, but while it’s lovely to feel supported by peers, those people are not going to book you.
The people who will put money in your bank: couples planning weddings are using Instagram in a totally different way. They aren’t sitting around waiting for your next post to pop up in their feed. They’re using the platform like a search engine. They might find you weeks after you post something because the algorithm has decided to serve it to them based on their interests or recent activity.
Understanding Wedding Photography Instagram Reach Today
So what’s the takeaway here? That likes and comments are nowhere near as important as you might think. What you should really be focusing on are shares and saves.
- Shares often mean people are sending your post to their partner, to a wedding group chat, or to someone helping them plan.
- Saves? These are gold. This is when someone bookmarks your post for later – maybe to show their partner, maybe because they’re not ready to enquire yet, or maybe because they’re building their dream day in a folder (like a mini Pinterest).
Instagram gives you insights on every post. Dig into those instead of worrying about vanity metrics like, like counts. That’s where the strategy comes in.

Here’s What To Do Now
When I create content, I now make sure I’m giving a reason to save or share. For example, this caption ends with: “Save this post if you’re planning a wedding in the UK.” That post is a list of tips on what to do if it rains on your wedding day and it links to a blog post on my site. That time someone spends reading my blog is time they’re not spending looking at another photographer.
Try to present your content in ways that inspire couples, provide them with wedding planning tips and advice and with getting those saves and shares in mind. And don’t forget to use all the discoverability tools that Instagram gives us.
- Post reels that are likely to get picked up on the Explore page.
- Use the Collab feature to share reach with other suppliers or your couples.
- Always geotag your content so it appears in location-based searches.
Post:
Reels for discoverability
Carousels for credibility
Stories for connection
These small tweaks help your posts show up in more feeds that matter, without needing to go viral.
So what does this mean for TikTok? If you enjoy it, go for it. But don’t jump ship just because Instagram feels slower. One platform isn’t a magic bullet. The key is to understand how people use these platforms and create content that meets them there.
FREE HELP
Ultimately, showing up consistently with intention is still a strong strategy. Even if it looks different now, even if the likes are fewer, you’re still building a digital footprint that future clients can find when they’re ready.
Keep going, but go smarter, not harder. For more help, make sure you have watched my free class, Instagram 101.

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